When a person calls another person
lazy, it's usually intended as an insult. Despite the use of laziness
as an insult, it's actually not a completely negative action. Being
lazy is not being incapable of doing something. Being lazy is being
unwilling to do something. This might seem like a minor change in
wording but it's absolutely essential to understanding what's behind
any bouts of laziness you're suffering through.
If you're too lazy to study then you're
not incapable of studying. You're just unwilling to.
But how much do you really want to
study? Logically, you may know that the education would be good for
you but you most people still struggle with it. Where is this
unwillingness coming from?
A History Of Lazy
Not doing stuff may seem unattractive
to people today but think about this from an evolutionary
perspective. Getting enough calories to survive today might be easy
but throughout most of human evolution it was a major challenge.
People would have to hunt for hours and hours a day to bring home
enough food for survival. Doing anything other than something
required for survival is a waste of energy in those situations.
(They didn't run marathons for fun
because it would be a dangerous risk of resources. They didn't seek
to become bodybuilders either. That may have helped them survive
better but survival is the goal not “better” survival. Your
education isn't survival. It's “better” survival.)
In fact, if you look at the leaders in
many different species, laziness is a rather common trait. Alpha male
lions would hunt for only a few hours a day. The rest of the day was
used for resting. Any more hunting is excessive and unnecessarily
dangerous.
I say this to remind you that your
laziness comes from a long genetic line of laziness in the past.
Laziness is a sign that you're surviving successfully. The world owes
you a big congratulations in successfully setting your life up in a
way that allows you to use less energy than you may have had to use.
That's not the whole story though...
You Have To Do It
The alpha's of a species can get away
with laziness the most. That being said, you don't have to be an
alpha to feel the same desire for the position. What are the real
reasons that you want to study?
What are you really studying for? It's
it for yourself? If you're mister or misses noble you might say, “I
care about furthering my education,” but is that really it? Most
people have much different true motivations.
Do you really just want to make your
parents happy?
Do you really just want to make your
teachers happy?
Do you really just want to make the
colleges you apply for happy?
Do you feel like you have to study?
The vast majority of people that
struggle with studying do not want to study for their own
improvement. If you need to study because of some external motivation
then you're always going to have to watch of for procrastination
because you're subtly admitting that you're not in control of your
own life.
You're not an alpha if you have to do
something for someone else. The need to procrastinate is the urge to
take back control of your own life. You may know it's temporary but
it's your body's way of saying you're still in control.
That brings us to one of the best ways
to end procrastination.
You Don't Have To Do It
As long as you think about studying as
something that you “have to do.” You're going to struggle getting
yourself to do it.
Studying is not something you have to
do. You can get subpar grades, heck, most students could still pass
all their courses. If you wanted to you could continue to not start
studying. Every time you realize that you're putting off studying you
should reassure yourself that you can not study anytime you want to
not study (and mean it.) Studying is a choice.
We live in the most advanced time in
history. If there was ever a time that a person could survive without
doing anything that they didn't want to do, it's now. You never need
to develop the discipline to farm a field. If you've read this far
then you're probably smart enough to do alright in life putting in
hardly any effort at all.
That being said, do you really only
want part of what you're capable of? (It's okay if you do.)
There has never been more opportunities
for you to focus your life on the things you love and do absolutely
amazing things with them. Everyone has something that motivates them
without even trying (even if it's something seemingly stupid like
wandering the web.) You can do virtually anything you want compared
to every other time in history.
Knowing that you can do or not do
anything you want...
Why Do You Want To Study
In the dream world, everyone would
study everything because they absolutely adore the subject. Math fans
would spend their time studying math. History buffs would be studying
history. Everyone would have their own little joys of learning. The
world doesn't work quite so magically but everyone seems to want you
to think it does.
You may have a favorite subject. If you
do then you probably don't need too much help preparing for it. It
just comes natural to you. Teachers tend to want you to feel that way
about every subject. Just think about it. Why do math teachers teach
math instead of English? It's usually because math is the subject
they love. Teachers tend to love their subjects. That makes it
difficult for them to understand how it feels to not love them. This
leads them to struggling to provide advice when you're not as
interested as they are.
You don't have to fall in love with a
subject to study it. All you need is a few good reasons. If you're
just looking to “pass the course” then, of course, you're going
to struggle to get the motivation to study. You're never too lazy to
study something you really love though. If, on the other hand, you
want to make a career out of the information you're learning,
studying will become easier. There are plenty of other reasons to
learn subjects.
Every class could have a whole list of
reasons. With English courses you could try to learn to communicate
with other people more effectively. With Math courses, you could look
at the problems like puzzles to solve. At the very least, in any
course, you can admit that you're just trying to score a good grade
for some external reason like parents or college. While it's not the
most powerful motivation, admitting it in advance can help you beat
procrastination.
You need to find a real reason that you
want to study. It doesn't have to be noble. It doesn't have to be the
reason your teachers would give it. It only has to be something that
you can relate to.
So, the next time you find yourself
struggling with procrastination, don't beat yourself up about it.
You're just doing what your body was meant to do. You don't have
study if you're too lazy to study. It's always your choice. When you
know it's your choice you can find the reasons to study that are
right for you.