11 Ways Life Is Way Cooler After High School Graduation

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I can remember when the end of high school was approaching. It was a nerve-racking time. While most of my friends were on the high school straight to college road, I was taking a slightly different approach. I wanted to save up a little money for college, (and have a clue what I wanted to study) before going. That left me leaving high school for a full time job. I was a little worried but it didn't take me long after graduation to realize exactly how awesome it was.

1. Monopoly On You

If you wanted to, could you quit your high school and go to another high school down the street? It's probably not that simple. You'd have to beg and plead your way in and out. You have virtually no choice which high school you end up going to. That leaves you in a precarious position.

Have you ever heard about the dangers of a monopoly? When the consumers don't have any choice but to buy from one company, the company doesn't have to try and please its customers. That's exactly the situation you're in with high school. High schools don't have to care whether you like them or not. Virtually everything else in life does.

If you go to college, you can always change colleges. If you get a job, you can always change jobs. If you travel to Puerto Rico and sleep in hostels, you can always find a new hostel (or new country.) That's the nature of most of the rest of your life. For the most part, your schedule is up to you. Sure, that comes with consequences but if you're a regular reader to this blog then I'm confident you'll handle them fine.

2. Your Priorities

Ever try to get out of a required course you didn't want to take in high school? I remember begging and pleading to not have to take an art course in high school. I was virtually begging, “I do not care about drawing ponies. I just want to take a science class.” They responded without a thought, “Well, we'd like you to be well-rounded.” ARGGGGHH!! It drives me nuts to this day. (For the record I drew awesome ponies before the class and the class didn't improve them much.)

Guess what? You never have to seriously worry about that again. Sure, in college you may have one or two classes you don't like but 90% of your schedule is up to you. If you want to be a mechanic then you can get courses on that. If you want to be a doctor then you can take courses on that. College mostly caters to your request.

If you don't go to college then you can go even more crazy. I remember spending months after high school studying online marketing. No, I didn't take a balanced course load of business classes. I just buried myself in that subject. Studying is amazing when you get to do it with subjects you love.

3. Your Pace

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Forget about doing what your teachers and parents want when they want. Sure, colleges have some schedules but most of your life is going to come down to your own choices. Don't want to do laundry? Screw laundry. You may stink the next day (because seriously, ewww, do laundry when you need to) but that's your damn choice.

In college, some of the best options are lining up your classes in a way that interest you. Do you hate how hard it is to keep up with high school courses? Then take fewer classes each semester. Do you hate how easy courses are? Then load ten classes on your schedule and don't sleep for months on end. That's your choice.

4. Boatloads O' Money

This isn't true for everyone but know that it's possible.

If you get a cheap apartment far outside of a city, you don't have any real commitments (like kids,) and you have your first full time job then you're not going to know what to do with all the money you have. Minimum wage pays you a lot when your young and not stuck with old people problems.

Sure, you may be eating cheap or leaving in a dingy little apartment but your money can go to whatever crazy things you want (college perhaps?) Compared to working part time for ten hours a week, you're going to notice the difference.

5. Less Parental Pestering

After high school graduation is the first time in your life you're without legitimate authority figures (assuming you're over 18.) If you want to move out then you're legally allowed to do it. More importantly, you don't have hours of school a day getting in the way.

Students that go to college may even get to move hundreds of miles away from their parents.

Now, parents are great (sometimes.) There is a very real chance you're going to miss them when your gone but everything changes when you get to see yourself as the authority figure over your life. After leaving your parents for the first time, it's going to be that much better when you see them again anyway.

6. Real Friendships

High school students... you're going to be losing a whole lot of friends. Sure, you might keep up on Facebook but it won't be anywhere close to the same. Eventually, you'll virtually never talk to most of the friends you had from high school. Why is that?

There are proximity friends and there are real friends. Just because you sat next to someone in biology class and shared a few jokes, it doesn't mean you'd be wonderful friends outside of that forced environment. Once you get out of school, at least one of you, isn't going to value the friendship quite as much. Some friendships can last but being in the same room as someone regularly is not necessarily a real one.

7. Sleep Late

Don't you hate waking up on time for high school. I remember some of my most productive times were late at night but I'd have to force myself into bed anyway to try and barely wake up in time for school.

In life, you get to choose what schedule you want to follow.

8. Stupid Mistakes

Some of the best parts of leaving high school are the most embarrassing in hindsight.

You are going to screw up really bad a few times after high school. That's actually really awesome. When you do screw up, you get to see the way the real world deals with it. You might get an F for screwing up in a course but in life, you usually won't face a grade.

That grade is something you'll have to give yourself. If you screw up at work then someone might not even tell you. You might have to watch someone else correcting your mistake to learn something. You have to be the one looking to grade yourself because, while you may not be facing grades, you are facing the consequences of your mistakes. You can't keep a job when you're screwing things up. Often, you'll be the only good judge of that.

While it's scary, it completely changes the way you look at your own life.

9. No (few) Commitments

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Most people are never going to be as free as they are graduating high school.

Most high school graduates have choices. You can go to college. You can travel the world. You can get a job. You can sleep on a park bench. Life isn't quite so simple later in life.

When you graduate college, you're probably going to be buried in debt. More importantly, it's hard to get a job after college when you don't go straight to work after graduating.

After a little while, you're probably going to have a long term relationship, and maybe even children to worry about.

When you retire, you probably still have family concerns. Maybe you're lucky enough to have your kids out of the house and comfortable but there are other problems. You'll be old. You're going to be more tired. You're going to be more sore. Odds are, you're not going to be particularly motivated to do the crazy things you wanted to do as a kid. Heck, most people end up living on a hot dog for dinner budget when they retire anyway. You won't be able to afford those fun things. You will have a house, a dog, and a retirement to support.

10. The Wait Is Over

Waiting for the last days of high school to end can be mind-numbing. It can feel miserable. It's an unbelievably scary time. Sure, you can do relaxation exercises or something but you're not going to be able to make it go away completely.

Once that wait is over, you're going to appreciate it.

11. Self-Directed Education

Unlike in high school, you're going to be able to define what education is important to you.

Do you want to go to a formal learning institution like college?

Awesome. Look around the world and find the perfect one. Then find your perfect major. Have fun.

Do you want to learn from hundreds of library books?

Sweet. That's my kind of learning. Get started. Maybe get a job to pay some bills and learn away.

The best part about this is that you're in control. If you're not learning what you want to learn, you can change what you're learning. When you realize that, your brain suddenly gets much better at actually learning. You'll get in the habit of focusing much more effectively because you'll know you're only focusing on subjects that actually matter to you.

I know learning doesn't sound like the most fun you can have after high school but once you realize the power you have, it will be.

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4 Reasons Study Hall Is Miserable For Studying

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Study hall (or otherwise called Study Period) is the perfect example of why you can't trust your school to give you a proper education. If I were to gather a group of the best experts in studying together and I asked them to design the worst possible environment for learning, what I'd have would look almost identical to study hall. (The difference would likely be that study hall has slightly less physical torture.)

Why is it so bad?

1. You're Surrounded By People That Don't Want To Study

The vast majority of students in any study hall couldn't care less about improving their grades. They're just slightly relieved that they don't need to listen to a teacher blather on for a period. That leads to one of two environments.

Most schools keep a teacher on full alert to ensure no student does anything entertaining. (We can't have people entertaining themselves on school grounds. That might actually make it a good learning environment.) That usually means that all students are expected to remain completely silent.

While silence can be a good thing for studying, there is a major difference between silence for the sake of learning versus silence for fear of trouble. That kind of an environment usually just leads to secret communication between students that requires way too much brain power for any productive studying to get done.

Then there are the study halls where the teacher couldn't care less about talking students. Of course, the majority of students take full advantage of that. When the majority of the students in study hall end up talking, it's virtually impossible for most students to get to their peak studying efficiency.

2. Silent Studying Sucks

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Anyone that's read this blog might be a little confused by that statement because it needs plenty of clarification.

To study most effectively, the vast majority of students require near perfect silence in the background. Any little noise can be a major distraction from the study material. That being said, many students suck at studying when they can't break that silence themselves.

In study hall, you can't just break out into reading your book out loud to try to get a difficult part down. Sure, it would be great if every person was gifted with visual learning to the point that they could read and memorize complex parts but some people need to hear and say what they're studying to get it. Just about any study hall you go to would have you reprimanded (or made fun of) for doing that.

Studying is not something that should be done in a group unless that whole group is motivated to study the same thing. There is no way it can work in this kind of an environment.

3. No Breaks

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Seriously, of all the stupidity a schools force their students into, this is one of the most irritating.

Study after study after study after study has shown that people can't study effectively for a full hour long. They can study effectively for 15-20 minutes and then they need to be able to take a break. Why do they make study periods so long? Sure, it may fit conveniently into the already a mess of a schedule but it's virtually guaranteeing half of the study hall is completely wasted time.

This isn't just preference. This is something that academics have been studying and proving for decades.

The worst part of all is that it trains students to study like idiots. Any student that doesn't take the time to research this information themselves is getting taught that an hour of sitting and studying is an effective strategy. Not only that but this also hurts the students that know how to effectively study.

Whenever you study, you get your brain into a rhythm of focus. A certain amount of focus can be maintained while studying and that amount of focus can improve over time. That is, it can improve if you don't blatantly force yourself into stupid study strategies like studying for a full hour.

You might start study hall with 80% study efficiency. If you spend your whole study hall studying, by the end of it, your brain is going to be working at somewhere around 50% efficiency. The next time you study, you're not going to be starting at 80% again, you're brain is going to be trained to think 60 or 70% efficiency is acceptable (because you did just study for nearly an hour at lower efficiency levels.) It gets your brain in the habit of sucking at studying.

4. Middle Of School

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Alright. So I want you to learn something. Now, to help you learn it, I'm going to stress you out for hours before you learn it and hours after you learn it. That's called the modern school day study strategy.

It's insane. Unless you're legitimately interested in the study material, there is no way you can learn much in such a stressful environment.

If your study hall is in the beginning of the day, it might not be so bad. You can save a little schoolwork for that morning and start the period fresh (even if you're still a little sleepy.)

If your study hall is at the end of the day, it also might not be bad. You get to wind down for the end of the day and do only as much work as you feel like.

It's the middle of the school day that causes most of the problems. While an effective student can nullify this problem, it can be miserable until you figure it out.

In the middle of the school day you're stressed. I don't care how much you enjoy school, your brain is probably pushing its limits in one way or another (if you don't like the classes then you can't stand the people, if you like the people then class is probably miserable, if you don't mind either then you might have just had a bad night before, etc.) Even if you could get work done during this period, you may get more overall efficiency from a good nap.

How To Manage Study Hall

This isn't going to be any students favorite advice in the world but ideally, don't manage study hall unless it's a near necessity.

What would make it a necessity?

If you have such a crappy home life that studying at home is worse than studying in school then do what you can to survive study hall. Otherwise, do everything in your power not to have a study hall.

Study hall isn't a required course. Instead of wasting your time with a study period, get another class. Sure, that might not be better for studying but you'll be doing more for yourself overall. In the ideal world, that course would help you get your diploma faster.

To be practical though, feel free to replace your study hall with any course that you find mildly entertaining. If you love art then an art class would do much better things for your stress level than a study hall ever could. The same goes for any subject that you enjoy.

This may end up adding more work to the end of your day but when you're in the habits that allow you to study more effectively the work goes by even faster than if you had it finished in a study hall.

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11 Secrets To Making Your Essays Unbelievably Awesome

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Any class that requires essay writing can be a massive time investment for the average student. Considering this blog is all about reducing time investment while increasing grades, this is a subject that's essential to understand. With many classes, essay writing is pretty much the only form of studying required. (Yes. I'd argue essay writing is just another form of studying.)

Early in my high school years I struggled at essay writing. I struggled, not because I was a bad writer, in fact, I got great grades (not that I think that should be the only criteria,) I struggled because a single page essay could take me a whole night to write. I had to invest a ridiculous amount of time to produce a quality essay.

Eventually it hit me. Of all that time it took to write a good essay, less than a quarter of it was actually used for writing the essay content. Most of that time was me staring at the page thinking about how hopeless this essay was. I could barely think of the next word I had to write. A simple full-page would end up draining me of all the energy I had.

After a short period of giving up on trying hard for essays, eventually I started to learn some of the basic formulas to creating a great essay without all the writers block and preparation.

Using these 11 strategies will change the way you write. If you're following them closely enough they can increase your grades dramatically while you work less than ever.

(While basic mechanics of writing are essential, they're barely mentioned in these tips. If you genuinely don't have the basics down then these tips will help but only as much as you can follow the basic mechanics of writing. )

1. Unforgettable

Don't try to look for a great idea to write about.

Instead look for something unforgettable to write about. It doesn't matter if it seems a little like a stupid idea. (The better a writer you are, the more stupid an idea you can get away with while still scoring high. )

Unforgettable is key. The average teacher does not want to give a great score to a student with a boring essay. They're human beings too. If they find themselves thinking deeply about your essay then you're winning. You've just made your essay stand out above 90% of the essays in the class.

2. Enjoy Writing. (Enjoy Reading It.)

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I know. This title alone sounds a little irritating but stick with me for a moment.

Is there anything you actually enjoy writing? If not, is there anything you actually enjoy reading? If you deliver a strong no to both these statements then this tip won't help but for the rest of you, it can blow your mind.

Forget about writing what the teacher wants you to write. That is a never ending road to writers block. Instead write it in a way that you enjoy writing or reading. You can always adjust it to fit the teachers needs later (or screw the teacher's desires and enjoy your good essay.)

If you enjoy writing something or you enjoy reading it, you've written something worth writing.

The average student gets caught up writing something they hate. Then, of course, when they review what they wrote, they still hate it. That kills their ability to write in the first place. Just write what you love from the start and you'll have a much better paper to work with in the future.

3. Start With A Hook In Mind

While I recommend having a general outline before you start writing, I've regularly started without one and created good papers. There is one thing that you absolutely should not start writing without: a hook. (Don't be too picky about how good it is.)

A hook is something that makes the reader feel the compulsive need to read on. It's kind of like a cliffhanger at the end of a television show. Even if you hate the television show with the cliffhanger, you still end up curious of what's going to happen. Of course, in your essays you're not going to want to leave the ending out (unless you planned some interesting metaphor or something.)

There are a ton of ways to write a hook. One of the quickest ways to make a hook is to say something that sounds absurd and attempt prove it. Depending on the kind of essay you need to write, you will need to adjust this accordingly.

4. Fast Is Natural

Many students struggle to write because they write too damn slow.

It's a really simple problem that plagues hordes of people. The slower you write, the more time you spend reviewing what you're writing. As you review what you wrote or are planning to write, you're trying to work out the details when you don't even have the basic plan finished. Write first. Review after.

Constant reviewing ends up with most students creating boring articles that have absolutely no natural flow to them.

Write faster. Type as fast as you can possibly type. Accept that you're going to have to change it later. That's going to leave your essay sounding more natural. It's also going to be written in much less time.

One final bonus: it gives you a strong incentive to review your work later (after you know the whole plan of the paper.)

5. Pimp My Essay (Thesaurus)

This is a tip that you've probably heard before but there are a few important notes that are rarely mentioned.

When you're writing your essay on a computer, within seconds you can check a thesaurus for a better word using your word processor. While you're reviewing your essay, use that thesaurus to find better word choices. Every time you find a word that you think can be improved on, use the thesaurus.

That being said, never replace a word in your paper with a word in the thesaurus without being 100% sure it's the better word. If you're not super careful then your essay may end up looking like a verbose quantity of excrement.

6. Check The Grammar (And The Obvious)

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You aren't a good writer until you use good grammar. No, you don't have to be writing perfect grammar (this is particularly true if you get to write a blog,) but you need to make sure your grammar isn't interrupting the average person's ability to read your work.

In most cases, this can best be done getting a third party to review your work before submitting it.

Of course, don't forget spelling. One spelling mistake isn't so bad but it can really ruin the flow of an otherwise perfect piece of writing.

7. Read It!

Seriously! This is obvious but few students actually do it. I know when you finish writing you're usually stressed and couldn't care less. If you followed these strategies then that shouldn't be happening. You should be ready to read your article after you write it. If you don't, you're passing up on some of the easiest points you have.

8. Borderline Bad

Trust where your writing takes you.

If you're writing an essay and you realize you're saying something that can be interpreted badly (or sounds bad,) that doesn't necessarily mean you should stop. If you're staying on topic and writing well, you can write controversial stuff and still get a great grade. That being said, I wouldn't recommend going too far down into the societal hate category but don't be afraid of getting on the border of inappropriate.

Some of your highest grades may come from some of the most controversial stuff you write. (It actually helps in the unforgettable aspect.)

9. Start From Scratch

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With this strategy, occasionally, you're going to write a crappy essay. That's alright.

Don't waste your life polishing a turd. If you think an essay you wrote is hopeless and you have the time to write a new one then write a new one. It's worth it.

This might sound crazy but it's essential to the strategy. Once I started implementing just a few of these strategies into my essay writing, I was able to write better essays in less than a quarter of the time I previously invested. That being said, occasionally, I would write crap and need to spend another quarter of the time to get a new essay.

If you're not willing to trash your crap then you're not utilizing this strategy as efficiently as you could.

Heck, usually your second essay goes much smoother because you're all warmed up.

10. Purpose

No matter what you're writing, always have a purpose.

With most non-fiction essays, it's easy to have a purpose. You propose a thesis and you provide the evidence.

Anecdotal essays are where most students forget to add in a purpose. If you're telling a story then know what point you're trying to emphasize and use the space you have to emphasize it. It can be very difficult in practice.

If you write a story about a family repeatedly screwing over a child in different ways, you can try to prove the point, “family isn't all it's cracked up to be.” (Of course, don't say it that obviously though.) You can emphasize that point by repeatedly having the characters discuss how wonderful family is (all while family is causing one person to suffer.)

Take note of the slightly controversial tone of that story. That helps hit a number of these strategies.

11. Make It Yours

Fundamentally, forget about writing for your teacher. It's just going to drive you nuts.

Write as if this is an essay you want to write for you. The more you focus on pleasing someone else, the more you're going to run in circles trying to figure out how to please them. Guess what? You aren't your teacher. No matter how hard you try, you're not going to be able to please them completely. For all you know, the teacher will wildly disagree with anything you write.

The only choice you have is to write something that you can derive pleasure from. While you should try to fit the basic assignment criteria, don't be afraid to push it closer to something you care about. Perhaps that can lose you a few points but it can improve the writing so significantly that those couple points will mean nothing.

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Don't Be Well Rounded

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The classic concept of a good student is kind of a cliché. I'm sure you can imagine the average “good student's” grades in some pretty clear details. The “good student” is the kind of student that gets above average grades in every subject. I'm sure you've met at least a few of these people in your life but what about you?

Are you a good student? Do you thrive equally in all of your classes?

Sure, there are a few good students reading this article but the vast majority of people reading this aren't that easy to define as good students. If you're like most people, you're a great student in some subjects but there are other areas that you struggle to get through. This is natural.

In typical schooling children are taught that it's wrong to be deficient in some areas and strong in other areas. No matter how strong a student is in English, they'll never graduate high school if they don't figure out math. This just trains people to stop training the areas they're experts in and focus on training what they're bad at.

Most schools focus on trying to make all students into these typical “good students.”

While you can learn to work in that framework, be sure to understand the problems that come with it.

Exceptional Gets Appreciated

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People who are equally good at everything are in a really tough spot in life. Schools are trained to make students like this. That means, the competition is quite fierce. If you're going to go into any academically strong college around the world, you're going to find tons of people that were above average at every subject. They're not special.

The only people who get jobs from exceptionally well-rounded grades are those students that can get better grades than 95% of their competition. Those are the students that get recruited to big positions in life. Every other well-rounded student is still stuck trying to compete for normal jobs. There is a major problem with that though.

Being equally good in multiple fields of study means you need to sacrifice expertise in specific fields of study. Students that don't get those exceptional opportunities for being one of the best suddenly have to compete with students that are exceptionally good at specific fields of study. If you're a company recruiting for an important job, you don't necessarily care if the person you're hiring is good at some unrelated subject. You certainly care that the person hired is great at one particular subject.

While the best opportunities go to the people that are great at everything, the competition is ridiculous. The next best (and sometimes better) opportunities tend to go to people exceptionally good at specific things. The competition is also much less intense. The students that fail to become exceptional because they tried too hard to be well-rounded end up losing out.

Unless you're exceptionally gifted, do not try and compete in exceptional well-roundedness.

This is life advice. It's not necessarily for all school opportunities...

School Loves Average

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While all this is great for everyday life. School isn't so simple.

School is not a natural environment.

No matter how good you get at one particular subject, you'll never be allowed to move forward in schooling without propelling in the other subjects. This can make it challenging because no two people have the same strengths.

Not only does school encourage a lack of focus for your education. It downright requires it. That means, unfortunately, you must find the appropriate compromise for yourself to continue to move forward in school.

You may love writing more than anything else in the world but you must be willing to leave that behind to keep learning other subjects. To understand the true horror of this situation, consider the fact that most students are so dominant in one particular subject that they virtually can't spend any of their time on that one subject they actually care about because they're so occupied by keeping up in other subjects. (That's a long sentence but it's making an important point.)

In the writing example, that would mean you can't spend any more than the minimum time writing because you need to spend all of your free time worrying about other subject you don't really care about.

Is this bad? Yes. Definitely. That being said, don't live in the negatives. By acknowledging the problem you are in the perfect position to find the solution.

Focus On Exceptional

In school, you're forced to maintain some minimal grade in every subject. You are not required to excel in them. (That being said, most people can be above average academically with just a little time and a few good decisions that's what this site is all about. Fundamentally though, remember that you're making your decisions. You're the one in control.)

There is a loophole with school's educational plan that you need to be aware of though. You don't actually have to be good at a subject to get a good grade in that subject. And, no, I'm not referring to cheating. I'm referring to learning a few key, subject independent strategies that can increase your grades dramatically without needing more time invested. That being said, many of these strategies don't really increase your competency in the subject.

I have hundreds of examples of this throughout my old blog posts but to get you started, here are a few ideas:

By properly understanding and adjusting to your syllabus in a course, you can easily focus your energy on only the areas that provide a major impact on your grades. For example, if homework is 85% of your grade then be sure to do it. If tests are 85% of your grade then homework might be worth skipping.

By using last minute short-term memory study strategies, you can remember large amounts of information for a test while investing less than 20 minutes into studying. That can instantly prop up your grade while studying less.

Most school require certain amounts of attendance to class. One easy way to not invest more time is to actually use the time in class to pay attention. I know it's hard. You don't have to if you don't want to but you can certainly save yourself time outside of class if you pay attention.

You can even learn to read faster. Most people can consciously increase their reading speeds by huge amounts with hardly any practice. This increased reading speed can even help comprehension because you're a whole lot less bored while reading.

Strategies like these ones allow you to become an exceptional student. You're not exceptional because you learn what they want you to learn well. You're exceptional because you know how to play the game they're forcing you into.

Once you learn to use strategies like these, you'll have plenty of time to focus on doing the things that really make you happy. These are the subjects that you can become exceptional at.

When you become exceptional at something, the world will treat you well. Sure, you may not know enough to master any other subject but the truth is, you'll never have to.

While in school, it can help to look like a good student but in life, don't be a good student. Be damn good at something.

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